Disappointing.... disheartening
Disappointing.... disheartening
She packed her milk and shipped it with care via FedEx and the recipient accepted it. Yay right??? Baby has milk- life is good.
This is where it gets hairy. The donor did not ship the exact way that the recipient requested and sent a very nasty email.
The donor replied kindly and gently- yet setting boundaries.
Then the recipient has not yet reimbursed the donor after several weeks.
The donor emailed the mods here and has had no communication from them
As of now the donor is pretty mad- she gave her MILK- to feed a baby in need and she is not met with gratitude- but anger??? Therefore she will not be donating her precious milk any more.
I am very disappointed in this community. And embarrassed that I have spoken so highly of it
somewhatsinglemama- Posts : 5
Join date : 2010-06-27
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7swans- Posts : 18
Join date : 2010-06-11
Age : 38
Location : Montreal, QC
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I think as long as the milk arrived safe and sound the recipient shouldn't be so mad. She could have sent a message gently explaining how the donor should ship it next time ans he should pay for the shipping of course. I hope your friend finds a better match to donate to and things go nicer next time.
MamitaM- Posts : 9
Join date : 2010-10-02
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7swans- Posts : 18
Join date : 2010-06-11
Age : 38
Location : Montreal, QC
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MamitaM- Posts : 9
Join date : 2010-10-02
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It is sad that my friend did not get the experience that I did.
somewhatsinglemama- Posts : 5
Join date : 2010-06-27
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I think it is best to remember that there are always good and bad in every group, there can be good and bad recipients and donors.
I really hope your friend does donate again, maybe to a milk bank or something. There are going to be moms who appreciate her milk.
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I am sorry to hear that she has had a bad experience and hopes she chooses to donate again, maybe locally this time...
JAMs Wife- Posts : 17
Join date : 2010-08-05
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somewhatsinglemama- Posts : 5
Join date : 2010-06-27
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mel chris- Posts : 26
Join date : 2010-04-24